How you speak to yourself when you mess up. How comfortable people feel being themselves around you. How you treat strangers when you’re tired or in a rush. Those things deserve attention too. Start with your own thoughts. Instead of “I’m such an idiot,” try “I made a mistake. What can I do differently?” You can hold yourself accountable without tearing yourself apart. When you’re with someone, put your phone down and ask a follow-up question. Remember something they told you. Small things like that let people know they matter to you. And with strangers, practice kindness in ordinary moments. Thank someone by name. Be patient with the person learning their job. You don’t know what kind of day they’re having. Taking care of yourself includes becoming someone you feel good about being. 🤍